Why aren’t we debriefing more?

deal managment sales leadership sales negotiation Oct 31, 2025

Most teams skip one of the most valuable habits in sales: the post-deal debrief.

Not just for losses — for every deal.

Ask:

  • Why did we win?
  • Why did we negotiate?
  • Why did it take so long to close?
  • Why did we lose?


When you deconstruct deals, you:

  • Raise win rates
  • Speed up cycles
  • Level up training
  • Sharpen your ICP


A simple way to run a debrief:

  1. Pick one deal (won and lost) each week.
  2. Invite everyone involved — AE, SE, BDR, manager. Keep it under 30 minutes.
  3. Ask four questions:
    • What actually happened?
    • What did we do well?
    • What would we do differently?
    • What did we learn about the buyer or market?
  4. Capture insights in a shared doc or CRM.
  5. Close the loop. Use what you learned to tweak methods, process, coaching and training.


Do this for a quarter and you’ll see patterns no dashboard will ever show you.

(Thanks to Todd Caponi. His post on negotiation sparked this one and got me thinking: why are we negotiating at all?)

Start your first debrief this week. Pick one deal and break it down.

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